Stop looking for closure from the other person.
Be it a break-up, workplace bullying, friendship betrayal, or a family bust-up.
Closure does not lie in the hands of the other person.
Even if they admit that they were in the wrong.
Even if you get the illusive apology that you’ve been waiting for.
Even if they give you answers that you’ve been looking for.
Even if you are now on speaking terms.
Even if they beg to have you back in their life.
That sense of closure will still evade you.
Because closure doesn’t come from the other person.
It comes from you.
The closure comes from you deciding that you’re no longer going to hold onto the past and all the painful emotions.
Closure comes from choosing to not replays the situation and imaginary stories and ideals in your mind over and over again.
That closure will come when you decide that you are better than that and deserve more.
The closure comes when you see that you are not who they said you were.
Closure comes when you say “Fuck that shit. Enough is enough.“
Because that closure you are seeking for, can only come from you.
And when it does that is the moment when you choose to…
- Let go
- Move on
This is when you finally take your power back and choose yourself.
Are you ready to give yourself the gift of closure?
Are you ready to use your breakup as a tool to elevate and transform into the woman you were created to be?