SPIRITUAL TEAM: Why you are not connecting.

We are all surrounded by our own little (or quite big) team in the spirit world. A team that can consist of angels, spirit guides, ancestors, God and the universe. Guiding us through this thing called life.

I know that it my own life my Spiritual Team have been there through the ups, downs, wins, challenges…….

Protecting me when I was being bullied. Guiding me away from a narcissist and toxic situations. Bringing guidance and synchronicity when I needed it the most. Inspiring thoughts and actions that lead to golden opportunities. Strength during times of struggle, anxiety and doubt.

In fact, I remember one day whilst lifting something heavy at work – anyone who knows me that I don’t lift anything “heavy” – I was definitely out of my comfort zone and struggling. One of the kids noticed and said:

“Don’t worry Miss, you can do it. I can see your wings.”

He said what?????????

Turned out he could see Angel wings appear behind me.

And, yes, I lifted the object with ease.

Your Spiritual Team are already around you. They are already guiding and assisting you even if you cannot see them. So, if you need more help all you need to do is ask.

Sure enough with the help from the Angels (and my Angel wings) I lifted the object with ease. An experience that shines a light on the fact that:

With this in mind, what stops you from receiving their help?

  • Beliefs – “I can’t”. “I tried and it didnt work.
  • Impatience – “I tried (a handful of times) Nothing happened.”
  • Expectations – “I didn’t see anything” Maybe you’re meant to feel, instead.
  • Inconsistent – “I did it (method/ritual/practise) for a bit. Then I stopped.
  • Fear – “What if I attract bad Spirits?

Other factors such as stress, tiredness, desperation and sometimes your own sense of entitlement and lack of gratitude (ego) block your connection.

In my opinion, the reason why children, like the 4 year old I mentioned, are able to have these experiences is because they are open.

They don’t have these preconceived ideas, judgements, limiting beliefs and have this light, playful approach.  Which makes it easier for them to see, hear, feel and accept.

So, if you are struggling to connect with your Spiritual Team, take a leaf out of that 4 year old’s book:

Be open. Ditch the expectation and judgement.

Start to work on whatever it is that is stopping you from connecting and open up to receiving the spiritual support around you.

Admittedly, as an adult it can be hard to release the old in order to open up. However, it’s not impossible. You can do it.

With love 💜

Do you want to develop your natural ability to connect with your Spiritual Team? Discovering tools and techniques to do this safely. If the answer is yes and you feel guided to work with me and my Spiritual Team then reach out to me here?

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How to recognise signs from your loved ones in Heaven

Halloween is the time of the year when people say that the veil is thin. However, I find that Christmas is a time where the veil is thin and loved ones in Spirit draw closer. No doubt reminding us of the true essence of Christmas.

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As a psychic and healer with mediumship abilities and a loved one in Heaven I have come to learn that our loved ones on the “other side” will leave us signs of their presence. In fact, you’ll probably find that they are already doing this and maybe:

  • You have not noticed
  • Dismissed the signs

If that’s been your experience then this post is going to help you in recognising the messages and signs from your loved one(s) in Heaven.


The most common feeling is a gentle breeze or goosebumps. Sometimes you might feel as if something/someone is touching your head or arm. It might also be that feeling that their energy is around you and it’s just an inner knowing that they are there.

How might you know for sure? Feelings come with this inner knowing. You can’t explain it you just know. It MIGHT be validated by a scent that is distinct to them, such as: cigarettes if they smoked, perfume/aftershave or their favourite tipple. They may also just run across your mind around the same time too.


A song might come on that your loved one absolutely loved or a song that just reminds you of them. You might even read a quote that might be their favourite or reminds you of something that may have said to you.

How might you know for sure? If the song or the words resonate with you or what you are going through right now. Also, if the song reminds you of your loved one(s) in Heaven. It might also be that the song is one that you don’t here often and suddenly you’re hearing it. Ultimately, if it means something to you and your loved one in Heaven then it’s likely to be a sign of their presence around you.


My personal belief is that signs, symbols (and numbers) are the language of Spirit. It is also a way in which your loved ones in Heaven can connect with you. There are common symbols such as feathers and white butterflies. However, sometimes these symbols can be more specific such as: their favourite flower, their name, birth date numbers, or if they had a tattoo like as an anchor and then you see it randomly or regularly.

How might you know for sure? You see the signs or symbols in random places or you see it often. Its specific to you and your loved one in Heaven.


Your loved one in Heaven might pop into your dreams. You might hear their name, feel their presence or see their face. This is quite common because you are more receptive and open and your dream state. Sometimes they have message to share or sometimes they are just showing their face to say “Hi“.

How might you know for sure? You’ll know because you see them. You might feel emotional on awakening and it may have felt real. As if they were really with you.


Other people may bring you messages from them. Through a medium being an obvious example. However, a friend or stranger can do this too by sharing with you a piece of advice or saying something that you’re loved one would have said.

How might you know for sure? The words and message will resonate with you to your core. It will be delivered at what feels to be the perfect time and just when you need it. What’s said is so specific to you and your loved one in Heavens relationship – its something that they couldn’t possibly know.

Hopefully this will help you in recognising signs from your loved one in Heaven. Yet, the ultimate thing to remember is that you just KNOW when a loved one is around you. It’s just a case of trusting that feeling and sense of knowing that comes to you. Particularly, if it feels real, brings comfort and just resonates at your core.
You can also ask for confirmation. No fancy words required. Just ask.

In fact, I did this when my nan first passed over. I asked for the most obscure, yet specific sign I could. So, there would be no confusion. I forgot about and then saw the exact image I’d asked for as a sign, a few hours later.

Try this yourself or write to them, if you would prefer.

Finally, this is a personal one which might resonate with someone: Light a white candle for them and add something they might like nearby the candle, eg: their favourite tipple or their image. (Be safe and sensible when working with candles – just saying.)

With much love 💖

Disclaimer: Grief and bereavement can be really challenging. Reach out to trusted professionals in mental health or medical professions if you need to.


Angel numbers are not just signs that your manifestation are on the way. There was is more to them that.

As a Psychic Medium, Spirit speak to me in signs and symbols, as well as normal convo style.

Those signs and symbols have generic meanings. They also have specific meaning given to me by the Spirit guide that I may be working with at that that time.

It’s a similar thing with angel numbers.

The numbers can be a sign that:

  • Your guides, Angels, ancestors are close and want you to connect with them more
  • You are aligned or misaligned with your desires or manifestations
  • You need to keep the faith, stay strong, dont give up hope
  • Or, maybe the numbers have a more specific meaning.

So, how do you know what the meaning is? How can you decode the specific message for you?

Most people go to Goggle. Looking up the numbers on their favourite websites. Mine is sacredjoscribes
However, the whole point of the Awakening journey as I know is to:

Awaken to YOURSELF and the Divinity, magic and answers that already lies within.

Therefore, consulting your own inner wisdom is the best way to get the real meaning.

Here are my tips on how to do that.

How did you feel when you saw the numbers or when it was pointed out? The initial feeling will give you a sense of whether this is an angel number showing that you are aligned or misaligned with your dreams/intentions.

What were you doing at the time when the numbers appeared? How did that activity make you feel? Was that activity in alignment with feeling good and raising your vibration?

What were you thinking about at that moment? Were your thoughts of the feel good variety? Or were you thinking negatively? Were you thinking about the bastard ex? If it’s the latter two then maybe consider that seeing the angel number was more of a pattern interrupt. Inviting you to shift your thoughts somewhere else and manifest better for yourself.

Bringing it back to yourself and using your own awareness allows you to connect with the true meaning behind the numbers. At the same time, supporting you in developing your relationship with yourself and spiritual team. Guiding you to look within before you look without.

Unfortunately, the world of Spirituality has made it seem like there is this one size fits all approach and pushing us to look outside of ourselves for the answers. And, dont get me wrong support from trusted channels is great. However, even then, remember that all answers lie within. Take what resonates.

With love x