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How to overcome the negativity that comes at you when you’re upgrading your life

People often say that once they start taking steps to upgrade their life, think positively + live a more spirit led life, more negativity shows up in their life.

They feel like they’re walking on cloud 9 only to find Negative Nelly, Jealous Julie, Doubting Debbie and Drama Queen Dawn greeting them at every corner. Snatching that cloud right from under their feet.

Why is this?

Well, I’ve learnt that Negative Nelly, Jealous Julie, Doubting Debbie and Drama Queen Dawn were also within me. I say within me because each time you start upgrading there will be a new Negative Committee ready and waiting for you.

Why? Because they are those parts of you that you need to see, relinquish and, if needs be, heal in order to fully upgrade and enjoy it to the max.

So, what do you do when you meet the Negative Crew? Here’s what I suggest:

TAKE THE LESSON

Ask what this encounter wants to teach you about yourself: What it is that you need to let go of and/or whom you need to forgive? Be prepared that the person to be forgiven is You! Think about all those places and situations in your life where you are showing up as less than your best and highest self. Then get to work on changing that.


PASS THE TEST

It could be that you are being tested by this encounter. Being invited to walk your talk and practise what you preach. So, take all that wisdom that lies with in, make use of those tools and practices and connect with spirit to help you ace that test.


REACH FOR THE BLESSING

The blessing being that you have been given this opportunity to overcome the hurdles within that separate you from your greatness and your soul dreams. It’s a sign from spirit that you are on track. That you are making moves in the right direction. Take the blessing and celebrate the progress you are making.


So, don’t be discouraged when the negativity comes to greet you. Don’t let it take you off your path and lead you back down into that tunnel of darkness. And if you do start heading back toward that tunnel be quick catch yourself and turn back around.

Use your wisdom and clean up whatever is coming up for you so you can become the person you were created to be and live the life you desire to live.

This requires practice at first yet it will get easier and you’ll get quicker at it over time.

You’ve got this!


HOW’S YOUR UPGRADE GOING?

Are you finding it a challenge to stay positive? What ‘negatives’ are coming up to greet you as you upgrade your life? How are you overcoming this? Leave your thoughts and comments below. You can reach me privately here too.

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2 thoughts on “How to overcome the negativity that comes at you when you’re upgrading your life”

  1. I love this so much. “Because they are those parts of you that you need to see, relinquish and, if needs be, heal in order to fully upgrade and enjoy it to the max.” I think sometimes the hardest negatives I face are those that aren’t really in how others are treating me, but how I expect to be treated through a certain process. If you’re not communicating well what changes are happening within you, how are others supposed to know? I think patience is required from both sides, even when you’re coming out better on the other side.

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    1. I see this happen alot with women (and men) in relationships. Where they expect the other person to just know how they desire to be treated. We teach others how to treat us through our boundaries and regard for ourselves. It’s a two way process with communication at the heart. #myopinion

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